Currently, most people are into aesthetics, and this is switching things up. The old-fashioned, simple wedding ceremonies are quickly dying out.

It is a party, and when I say it goes by so fast, every single bride will tell you the same, so why go into debt over a wedding that is out of your budget?

There are people who can afford to have a blowout wedding, but they still choose not to because they are not cut out to please everyone.

Peer pressure should not have you thinking outside of your own reality.

The bride may say I’m not doing it for everybody else; I’m doing it for me. Cut the comedy and bite off only what you can chew.

If, as a guest, I walked into your reception and saw beautiful flowers, sure, I would give a compliment, but that’s just it. It ends at that.

I bet none of you remember what the napkins, silverware, flowers, or champagne tower looked like at the most recent wedding.

You might as well try to stick to a budget that is within your means because this shows that no one will remember all the things you broke your back trying to put together.

As guests, we are here to see the love; it’s the emotional bit that our memories will carry forever, not which bottles of champagne were popped all night or the fancy decor at the wedding.

Our current generation is into aesthetics and flaunting money, and this makes us forget the things that truly matter, which are love and celebrating the union of the two souls.

The meltdown on the bride’s face comes when the night comes to an end and she realizes it’s all over.

Don’t go broke trying to brag or follow trends. Always ask yourself one question: Will all this matter tomorrow?

Whether it’s a normal wedding or a fancy wedding, at the end of the day, you are just as married as the other couples around you.